Actually, that group was created way back when groups were network specific, so I can't invite you. Although the irony of this group's segregation is quite delicious, I will create a new group for the organization and invite you.

Fascinating question. I'm not sure of the answer. Perhaps you were accidentally confirmed and then the subsequent unfriending was just correcting that mistake. In that case, I'd say they're about the same.

Or if the confirmation were intentional, I'm thinking that maybe that's worse. Because unfriending somebody is a more active rejection than not confirming somebody in the first place. But then again, the fact that you were confirmed at first could suggest that your person at least remembers you. I would bet that my guy just doesn't remember me, which is pretty bad. I don't know what to think. Facebook is so complicated.